Every child, needs a consistent daily structure that remains the same from day to day. This kind of predictability is imperative for growth in speech. A predictable structure enables predictable language that will serve as foundational pivot points to build language upon. So for example, if every night you say to the child, “You need to put your socks in your shoes.” This language will serve as pivotal language that you can help him build upon as you turn your directives into questions. So after a certain amount of time you will no longer say “You need to put your socks in your shoes” but you will ask “What do you need to do now?” If your schedule is consistent the child will know the answer to this question and to other similar questions. This method will enable increase use of speech by the purposeful connection to vocabulary and action. With the building of this vocabulary through repetition then questioning (What do you need to do next?) child will begin to internalize the structure and thus the ability to connect to daily activities, control himself and grow in his independence.
encourage them to in what they are doing as well as inspire them to reflect on things in a fresh and new way. Here are some of the recent reflections I have shared with some of the teachers. Let me know what you think!
I remember when my children were younger I often thought, "When they're older they'll be more independent and I'll have more time to myself!" I learned, though that when my children reached middle school they needed me more than ever! So, let me just suggest that you take a deep breath and try to enjoy the ride!


